Hmm, good question. The answer, seduction.
A dangeroulsy flirtatious glance. A raised eyebrow. A slow sensual smile. A conversation filled with sexual innuendo. Fingers entwined with your own. A thumb brushing the back of your hand. Palm pressure in the small of your back. A sense of humor and a deep filthy masculine laugh that is pure verbal foreplay. The feel of fingertips gently stroking your neck then trailing over the top of your breast. Breath moving your hair. A deep male voice purring in your ear, telling you what he’s going to do to you and how much he plans to make you enjoy it. Dark eyes filled with lust. Warm lips and day old stubble brushing your body. Hard muscles beneath soft masculine skin. A meaningful lust filled chuckle. A slow seductive glide of a hand along your thigh. Warm lips claiming yours. A deep intense toe curling kiss and, finally, complete and utter abandonment to the moment.
Now I think I need a cigarette, or a strong drink, or both!